How important is weight gain in a relationship?
sasafras77 Question : How essential is weight obtain in a partnership How do you cope if your companion (or you) has drastically gained weight and is it feasible to still be attracted to your companion when they have gained weight that you are not insane? Have you ever split up above the weight obtain? Any thoughts on weight get in a relationship appréciée.Meilleure response: Solution by
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I feel it’s crucial to take care of your entire body, but I would not leave my husband if he had abruptly gained 15 pounds. Some individuals can not manage the weight obtain due to health-related difficulties.
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Sure you can still be attracted, and stuff happens – gravity and all.
However, I feel a basic obligation to my husband to remain attractive to him as long as I reasonably can. He’s happy. I’m happy.
Being fat is a symptom of laziness and sloth.
NOT acceptable.
Sorry!
Weight gain should be dealt with. We didn’t marry big fat pigs so why should we have to put up with that?
My wife and I exercise several times a week to continue to look good for each other and for our own self esteem and health.
The PC answer is that is doesn’t matter.
The truth? The appearance of my partner and more importantly her self image and willingness to take care of herself are important to me. So yea, it’s an issue.
Unless it is going from slim to grossly obese – a little weight gain should not matter at all!
I would be upset. It’s not like its not preventable. Just because you got married, doesn’t give you the right to throw in the towel on your appearance!
Luckily for me, my husband just has a nice lean body type. He can shovel in 4 cheeseburgers and milkshake without gaining an ounce.
I run 5 days a week. I try to keep my body fit, for me and my husbands benefit.
Besides, you only have one body, why not make the most of it?
The Harpoons.
MAN THEM!
My hubby is not the best looking man. I definitely think i am the far more attractive partner. We were friends for years before we started dating. I never saw him as more than a friend, because he was not that attractive. However, after I finally gave him a chance I realized he is the best compliment to me. And the sex is …whooooo!
But really if the weight gain bothers you that much, then there really is a underlying issue. Like maybe she doesn’t take care of herself at all nowadays. If it is non of the above then why don’t you suggest working out together, it would also be considered quality time. And everyone gains weight in a relationship if it is a happy one.
Is this a question about weight gain?